Day three since my husband's death... the day I am ready to start documenting my thoughts. Any thoughts. Random thoughts. Honest thoughts.
I am so sorry that had to clean up the incorrect mess of a statement that the anonymous person wrote.You and your family will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
(((hugs))) all drivers get distracted. We'd be lying if we said we didn't ever fiddle with the radio or look at our phones. I have been thinking about you and you are still in my prayers.
I hope whoever wrote that statement reads your post today and reads this comment: Shame on you. Who are you to add more hurt to a situation you are not a part of (because you are unmistakably NOT a friend or a caring stranger). Throwing "mud" incorrectly is what a child does when they are upset. Apparently you are an adult with hurtful, misunderstood opinions of the situation.We all get distracted when we drive and just because my cell is close, does not mean I'm using it. I drive 1.5 hours per day and it only takes seconds to look at a billboard, the car next to me instead of in-front of me, the animal on the edge of the road I'm avoiding, etc. It only takes seconds.Anonymous person, retract your statement.Steph, we love you and think about and pray for you daily.
So sorry you had to deal with this insensitive person. The previous comments are so accurate, everyone is guilty of distracted driving and anyone who says differently is lying as another person in the vehicle is a simple distraction. Prayers and Hugs to you !!
Even if he was txting, for that poster to say that was heartless. You still lost your husband & your children lost their father. Making it a point to say that won't bring him back or make things different. My father died when I was 15 of cancer. No on threw in my face that he smoked. No one should. I'm so deeply sorry for your families loss. I'll keep you & your children in my prayers for peace & understanding. It's never anything you get over you just get used to it.
Thank you for your perspective, Megzway. That is a logical way to look at it. It's easy for people to write insensitive things when they are behind a computer screen; things they would NEVER say to my face. So I have let a lot of those comments go but that one I could not.